Networking works best when it doesn’t feel transactional—to you or the other person. If you’ve ever thought “I don’t know what to say” or “I don’t want to bother them,” this framework keeps it simple, consistent, and low-pressure.
Set a recurring calendar block and do just three things:
Pick someone you already know: former coworker, classmate, manager, mentor, or recruiter.
Message template:
“Hi [Name]—saw you’re now at [Company]/working on [X]. Congrats! How’s it going? Would love to hear what you’re focused on lately.”
Choose one person on LinkedIn who matches one of these:
Connection note template:
“Hi [Name]—I’m exploring [role/field] and noticed your path from [shared point]. Would you be open to connecting? I’d love to learn from your perspective.”
You don’t need “big value.” Small, relevant, and thoughtful wins.
Value message template:
“Thought of you when I saw this—especially the point about [X]. Here’s the link if helpful: [URL].”
When someone engages, shift to a clear, respectful ask:
Ask template:
“If you’re open to it, could I ask you a few questions about [team/role/company] on a 15–20 minute call? Totally flexible—happy to work around your schedule.”
If you committed to 15 minutes per week for the next month, what would be the hardest part for you—starting outreach, staying consistent, or knowing what to say after they respond?
Love this framing—“career allies” instantly lowers the pressure and makes the intent clearer. The 15-minute structure is also realistic, which is wher...
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